Are you living your best life?  In American culture, people say they’re “living their best life” when they’re doing great, doing the things they enjoy, and there’s nothing else they’d rather do.  Sometimes we may do what we’re supposed to do and enjoy it, but I doubt anyone is doing this constantly without exception.  I also doubt it’s as completely fulfilling as we expect it to be or tell others it is.  Also, the “best life” we see others living on social media isn’t a full reflection of how their lives are going.

On the other hand, consider the only person who ever lived a life fully acceptable to God: Jesus.  His “best life” began in a dirty manger and ended on a dirty, bloody cross.  In between, He lived a life fully devoted to doing the work of the Father.  If Jesus’ life was perfect according to God, what does our “best life” really look like?

It doesn’t mean a life lived without happiness and joy, after all joy is a fruit of the Spirit, something that comes from following God.  I don’t get the impression that Jesus was never having a good time.  His first miracle was turning water into wine, and He was accused of being a “glutton and a drunkard.”[1]  He certainly wasn’t a glutton or drunkard, but someone who always acts like a stick-in-the-mud would not have faced these accusations.  Jesus enjoyed being among friends, even if they were “tax collectors and sinners,” and certainly lived a joyful life.  He was often enjoying Himself, although without excess or sin.

The same as with Jesus, our “best life” means living as God intended us to live, and what He wants most from us is to love Him and to love our neighbor.  We may want to live for ourselves and only care about what we can get out of this world.  As the saying goes, “he who dies with the most toys wins,” right?  But living this way has a negative impact on others and we can’t keep what we gain anyway.  I’ve also heard that “you never see a U-Haul being pulled behind a hearse.”  In contrast, living for others is what Christ commands, following the Spirit’s guidance can bring us joy, and the positive impact we have on others has an eternal value greater than we can measure.

However, we know that many in Jesus’ day did not approve of the way He lived (even though it was perfect), and many of those people were the religious and political leaders.  The same will be true for His followers, as He said in Matthew 10:24, “a disciple is not above his teacher, nor a servant above his master.”  In other words, if He suffered for doing good, why would we be an exception?  Truly living our “best life” according to God means that we will face resistance.  Christian love isn’t always a virtue this world admires or wants to see.

As we know, this opposition led to Jesus being turned over to the authorities and sentenced to death upon a cross.  Only His life didn’t end on the cross.  He rose from the dead and ascended into heaven, where He prepares a place for us.  A place where we can live our “best life” perfectly and without opposition or persecution.  A place where we can be who God really intended us to be.  There should be nothing we’d rather do.

“For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to us.” – Romans 8:18

[1] Matthew 11:19