Are there people in the church, either in your own church, another local church, or somewhere in the global church, that seem a bit un-Christian? Perhaps their doctrine is a bit different than yours, or perhaps they behave a bit differently. Maybe they dress differently or have different standards in music. They could have different political beliefs. It could be anything.
Within a parable Jesus told in Matthew 13:24-30 is some wisdom about “those people.” The parable is:

“He put another parable before them, saying, “The kingdom of heaven may be compared to a man who sowed good seed in his field, but while his men were sleeping, his enemy came and sowed weeds among the wheat and went away. So when the plants came up and bore grain, then the weeds appeared also. And the servants of the master of the house came and said to him, ‘Master, did you not sow good seed in your field? How then does it have weeds?’ He said to them, ‘An enemy has done this.’ So the servants said to him, ‘Then do you want us to go and gather them?’ But he said, ‘No, lest in gathering the weeds you root up the wheat along with them. Let both grow together until the harvest, and at harvest time I will tell the reapers, “Gather the weeds first and bind them in bundles to be burned, but gather the wheat into my barn.”’”
For this post, the key phrase in the parable is “No, lest in gathering the weeds you root up the wheat along with them.” The wheat in the parable represents God’s people, and the weeds represent unbelievers in the midst of them. The servants ask the master whether they should pull up all the weeds immediately, which seems like a sensible thing to do. Weeds are bad for crops, right?
The surprising response is that the servants should “Let both grow together until the harvest.” Why? Because in the master’s judgment it is better for the wheat if the weeds are allowed to grow. In other words, removing the weeds before the harvest – when God will separate the wheat from the weeds – would be bad for the wheat harvest. Until the harvest, the master warns that we could “root up the wheat along with them.”
In Matthew 25 where Jesus tells of the final judgment in verses 31-46, it’s strongly implied that some of the “wheat” will be surprised about being wheat and some “weeds” will be surprised about being weeds. In verses 37-39 Christians say: “Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you drink? And when did we see you a stranger and welcome you, or naked and clothe you? And when did we see you sick or in prison and visit you?” In verse 44, unbelievers say: “Lord, when did we see you hungry or thirsty or a stranger or naked or sick or in prison, and did not minister to you?”
Therefore, if the wheat and the weeds themselves can be unsure which they are, how can anyone else definitively decide who doesn’t belong, especially to risk damaging those who do belong. There will always be true and false believers in churches until Christ returns, so remember: According to the Master, the wheat is better off with the weeds than without. Especially if sometimes what we think are weeds actually aren’t.
Love this post. So true.
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