Courage to Change: A Quint of Quotes

Fellow travelers,

Here is another “Quint of Quotes” from my collection, on the theme of personal responsibility and development.  Please don’t take the last one literally.

When a man’s folly brings his way to ruin, his heart rages against the LORD.” – Proverbs 19:3

“People could survive their natural trouble all right if it weren’t for the trouble they make for themselves.” – Ogden Nash

“God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
the courage to change the things I can,
and the wisdom to know the difference.” – Common prayer adapted from Reinhold Niebuhr

“Millions of people die every year of something they could cure themselves: lack of wisdom and lack of ability to control their impulses.” -Irving Kahn, investor who died at 109 of natural causes in 2015

And if your hand or your foot causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to enter life crippled or lame than with two hands or two feet to be thrown into the eternal fire.” – Matthew 18:8

Radical Forgiveness

Sometimes in the Bible events are simply recorded without much commentary on their significance, but if we look hard enough, there’s often context somewhere else in the book.  An example of this is Acts 21:8, which says:

On the next day we departed and came to Caesarea, and we entered the house of Philip the evangelist, who was one of the seven, and stayed with him.

Here Acts is telling us about one of Paul’s last missionary journeys, and the “we” included a few people, including Luke, the author of the gospel by his name and of Acts, and Paul, who we know as the author of much of the New Testament and as founder of many of Christianity’s first churches.  Luke doesn’t seem to think of the verse above as very significant since he spends so few words on it.  There’s really no further comment on this living arrangement.  However, there’s more to it.

The apostle Paul didn’t always go by that name and if we investigate his past, we uncover more of the meaning in Acts 21:8.  The first time he appears in Acts is as Saul, who presided over the death by stoning of Stephen, a prominent Christian disciple.  After Stephen gave a public sermon to a Jewish crowd in Jerusalem, the crowd took what he said as blasphemy, and then Luke wrote this: “Then they cast him out of the city and stoned him. And the witnesses laid down their garments at the feet of a young man named Saul.”[1]

While we don’t read of Saul actually casting stones, he approved of Stephen’s death and likely saw it as a great victory because at this time, Saul was a zealous Pharisee and persecutor of the young church.  Just a bit later in Acts (and right before his conversion) we read of Saul “breathing threats and murder against the disciples of the Lord.[2]  Saul certainly would have loved to get his hands on one of the 12 apostles, but others close to them would be fine as well.  Killing Stephen, as one of the 7 original deacons of the church, would have pleased Saul.

Who were these deacons?  We learn, also in Acts, that the widows of Greek-speaking Jews (Hellenists) “were being neglected in the daily distribution.”[3]  The apostles had stretched themselves too thin, so distribution of food and other aid was being neglected.  The solution was to name “seven men of good repute, full of the Spirit and of wisdom[4] as deacons to better handle the distributions, allowing the apostles to focus on their preaching ministry.  These seven men were “Stephen, a man full of faith and of the Holy Spirit, and Philip, and Prochorus, and Nicanor, and Timon, and Parmenas, and Nicolaus, a proselyte of Antioch.”[5] [bold mine]

So, Stephen, who Saul/Paul was pleased to see martyred, and Philip served together as deacons in the Jerusalem church.  We don’t know if they knew each other before this or how long they served together, but there must have been some kinship there.  Serving together creates bonds of fellowship.  And this brings us back to Acts 21:8.

On the next day we departed and came to Caesarea, and we entered the house of Philip the evangelist, who was one of the seven, and stayed with him.

Luke doesn’t describe what was going on in Philip’s head, but from the rest of Acts above we know that Philip was welcoming a murderer into his house who oversaw his associate’s death.  Luke records no tension, no confrontation, no hard feelings.  Just that Paul (no longer Saul) was able to stay with Philip for some time.  What he doesn’t explain is that these two evangelists love Jesus and are able to forgive each other any sin because of the forgiveness Jesus gave to them.  Instead of bitterness, Philip may have instead felt joy that God was able to work so powerfully in Paul’s life.  The former murderer of Christians was now a Christian missionary.

This reminds me of a saying I found online (unsourced):

“The apostle Paul entered heaven to the cheers of those he martyred.
That’s how the gospel works”

In the gospel, all sins others commit against us are forgivable, just as Jesus can forgive us any of our sin because He paid the price for all of them.  In Philip’s case, even though Paul murdered his friend, God gave enough grace that Philip could forgive, and Luke can record Paul moving in without any additional comment.  Also, even Stephen is able to forgive Paul.

It’s hard to love someone if you can’t first forgive them, and we’re commanded to love everyone.  So, is our ability to forgive as radical and complete as Philip’s?  Are we willing to welcome into the church, and into heaven, our worst enemies?  Maybe we have someone specific in mind as we read this who drives us nuts.  Can we forgive them?  For most of us, these are very hard questions, therefore, pray that God can show us more of His grace and enable it to share it with others.  Whoever they are.

We know it’s possible with God’s help.


[1] Acts 7:58
[2] Acts 9:1
[3] Acts 6:1
[4] Acts 6:3
[5] Acts 6:5

Daily Readings for November 10 – 16

Fellow travelers:

Here is the list of readings for this week: 2 chapters to read per day as the main reading plan, and extra chapters for anyone who wants to read the whole Bible in 2025.

I post this every week for 2 reasons.  First, it helps keep me accountable to my own reading schedule.  Second, I hope it encourages others to read and study their Bible more, whatever parts they decide to read.  (The other, less important benefit is that it provides 52 days a year of posts!)

Follow along (or not) any way you choose!  Also, let me know if you’re interested in me doing this again next year with a different order of books.

2 chapter a day plan:
Monday, November 10: Acts 25-26
Tuesday, November 11: Acts 27-28
Wednesday, November 12: Song of Solomon 1-2
Thursday, November 13: Song of Solomon 3-4
Friday, November 14: Song of Solomon 5-6
Saturday, November 15: Song of Solomon 7-8
Sunday, November 16: 1 Timothy 1-2

Extra chapters for those reading the whole Bible this year:
Hosea 12-14, Joel 1-3, Amos 1-2

Getting Close to Jesus

When Jesus walked the earth, He was both fully God and fully man, a mystery we may never fully understand.  It didn’t take long for such a person to get a lot of attention, especially once He began healing people and performing miracles.  John recorded in his gospel that after Jesus fed 5,000 people with five loaves and two fish, the crowd “were about to come and take him by force to make him king[1]  In this instance, Jesus withdrew from the crowds, but people continued to follow Him, sometimes from town to town.  However, this was not usually for the right reasons.  Many wanted to benefit from His power, but they didn’t want to call Him their own personal Lord.  They wanted to make Him king, but only so they could get what they wanted out of it.

Even today, many are like those who crowded around Jesus in ancient times, wanting to be identified with His power, but not wanting Him to have power over them.  But by God’s grace, there is always a remnant of people who truly believe in and are faithful to Him.  There’s a great example of the contrast between these groups in Mark chapter 5.  In verse 25 we learn that “a great crowd followed’ Jesus, and in verse 26 Mark brings the focus to one person: “there was a woman.”

Jesus was (and is) always interested in the needs of individuals.  As God, His attention span is unlimited.  He can see the whole and He can see the parts, but He gave special attention to specific parts to demonstrate His love.  In this case, the individual woman “had a discharge of blood for twelve years, and who had suffered much under many physicians, and had spent all that she had, and was no better but rather grew worse.”  At this point, she knew there was nowhere else to go, so she fought her way through the crowds in order to get close to Jesus and “touched his garment.”  She was immediately healed of her “flow of blood.”

Photo by Edwin Andrade on Unsplash

Next, Mark tells us, “And Jesus, perceiving in himself that power had gone out from him, immediately turned about in the crowd and said, “Who touched my garments?”  And his disciples said to him, “You see the crowd pressing around you, and yet you say, ‘Who touched me?’”  With many people “pressing around,” obviously many were touching Him, but did His power only go out to some?  So, Jesus’ closest followers were surprised that, among the crowds of people, Jesus would distinguish one person from the others.

Then, “the woman, knowing what had happened to her, came in fear and trembling and fell down before him and told him the whole truth.  And he said to her, “Daughter, your faith has made you well; go in peace, and be healed of your disease.””  Out of the whole crowd, Jesus could tell whose faith was genuine and whose wasn’t, who believed in who He really was, and who just wanted the benefits of being around Him.  His saving power only goes out to those with true faith.

This idea is important even today.  The Life Application Study Bible notes: “What a difference between the crowds who are curious about Jesus and the few who reach out and touch him! Today, many people are vaguely familiar with Jesus, but nothing in their lives is changed or bettered by this passing acquaintance.”  Yes, what a difference!  Especially in eternity.

It makes me ask myself, who am I in this story?  Am I the selfish crowds trying to hang out with Jesus for my own benefit, or am I the woman who puts her faith in Jesus because she knows her problems can be solved by no one else?  Am I concerned only with my earthly, physical problems, or do I come to Jesus knowing I have a spiritual disease only He can cure?  Only if my faith is like the woman’s and not like the crowds will Jesus say: “go in peace, and be healed of your disease.”

Do you ask yourself these same questions?  There are always those who “follow” Jesus but don’t truly believe in Him.  If so, do we just hang out with the crowds of religious people who only superficially trust Him, or do we reach out for Jesus Himself!  The thing we should do is fight our way through them and get close enough to touch Jesus Himself!  If we do, Jesus will find us in the crowd and satisfy our deepest need.

Don’t let the crowds discourage you or keep you from Jesus – find a way to get close to Him today!


[1] John 6:15

Daily Readings for November 3 – 9

Fellow travelers:

Here is the list of readings for this week: 2 chapters to read per day as the main reading plan, and extra chapters for anyone who wants to read the whole Bible in 2025.  I goofed last week and listed Acts 1-2 twice as the reading plan.  Sorry!  I got it back on track this week.

Follow along (or not) any way you choose!  Also, let me know if you’re interested in me doing this again next year with a different order of books.

2 chapter a day plan:

Monday, November 3: Acts 11-12
Tuesday, November 4: Acts 13-14
Wednesday, November 5: Acts 15-16
Thursday, November 6: Acts 17-18
Friday, November 7: Acts 19-20
Saturday, November 8: Acts 21-22
Sunday, November 9: Acts 23-24

Extra chapters for those reading the whole Bible this year:
Hosea 3-11