Fellow travelers,
Are there small changes you can make to improve your life? Are there small things you are doing that are harmful to you? Can each of us build a better “liturgy” for our lives over time, step by step? Can we accumulate victories in small battles that help us fight bigger ones? Over time can we better love God, ourselves, and others?
Instead of making New Year’s resolutions or celebrating Lent, every 40 days I try to make a small, permanent change in my life habits. I keep a list of the changes I’ve made or want to make. This is all voluntary, so I don’t criticize myself for missing a deadline or going back on something. If I fail at some of the changes, the successful ones still add up to a massive shift over time. I don’t always do “spiritual” changes, just something small I think will make my life better, permanently. For example, one of my goals from 2021 was to drink at least 32 oz of water a day, and I still do it (with an occasional miss).
I’ll be making a small change, and if you want to participate, tomorrow, May 1st, is 120 days after the start of the New Year and time for the next change. If you do, keep a record of what you’re changing. As the months and years pass, hopefully the cumulative change becomes enormous. The next date on the schedule (40 days later) is 6/10/26, and I have a couple of things under consideration for then. I’ll be posting a reminder at about that time; if you want to participate, start making a list of things you might want to do more or less of, and let’s see what we can accomplish! This habit of changing habits has been helpful to me and might be to you, even if you have your own way of doing it.