Loving someone and liking someone are not the same thing. Christians think and talk often about the love of God and how He loves His people. Love is about sacrificing our own interests for the best interest of another, and the incarnation and the cross show what love is in a way nothing else can. When we think of God’s attributes, love is often near the top of the list. God loves His people.
But does God like His people?
If I like someone it means I enjoy being with them. Their presence and fellowship make me feel good. I think they’re a worthwhile person and it’s easy to give them my time and attention. I don’t get tired of them easily and need some time away. Christians don’t talk about whether God likes them as much as they talk about God’s love. Sometimes we may instead feel that He just puts up with us. He doesn’t actually like us, even if His love for us is infinite. Maybe we even feel He wants to keep us at a distance because He resents all the times we’ve failed Him. But this isn’t how we should feel.
Consider Psalm 149:4, which says:
“For the LORD takes pleasure in his people;
he adorns the humble with salvation.”
This verse says that God “takes pleasure” in us. He wants to be with us, and He wants to see us succeed. He gets pleasure from our praise and our enjoyment of Him. It also says He gives His people “salvation.” Salvation means many things, but it includes the restoration of the saved person’s relationship with God. The restoration of a relationship He wants to have and was willing to die for! If He didn’t want us around – if He didn’t like us – He wouldn’t offer us salvation.
Consider also Zephaniah 3:17, which continues the idea:
“The LORD your God is in your midst,
a mighty one who will save;
he will rejoice over you with gladness;
he will quiet you by his love;
he will exult over you with loud singing.”
In context, this verse seems to be pointing to either: the condition of God’s people post-exile, after the coming of Jesus, or in eternity in heaven. My interpretation is that Zephaniah was talking about something that will be partially realized after Jesus’ first coming and fully realized after His second. It’s one of those “now, not yet” ideas. So, what is he saying? He is saying that God is with us and that He will save us, but there’s more. The second half of the verse sounds like God is celebrating the people that He has saved. He “will rejoice” and He “will exult” with “loud singing.” Have you ever pictured God as singing because He has so much joy? That seems to be what Zephaniah is describing! When God saves His people, they bring Him so much joy that He sings!
One last verse to consider is Ephesians 2:10, which says:
“For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them.”
I quote this verse a lot, but today’s focus is on the word “workmanship.” This word is a translation of the Greek “poiema” from which we derive our English word poem. In sanctifying us – steadily in this world, and perfectly in the next – God is making something out of us. He is not making something useless or ugly, but something poetic, and He is pouring all He is into it, like an artist would into a piece of art. We aren’t a dispassionate work, but a passionate one. One He cares deeply about. One that He wants to get right. To get perfect. God is not indiscriminately cranking out widgets that are indistinguishable from one another. Each creation of His is a poem, a work of art! As Veggie Tales used to say: “God made you special, and He loves you very much.” We are each an individual “poiema” that He takes pleasure in having created and in continuing to create.
So, not only does God love us, but He also likes us! He doesn’t just tolerate us until we become perfect, and He doesn’t wait to fully love us until we think we deserve it. Instead, He wants to be by our side every step of the way from our current, imperfect selves until the day He completes His work in us. And He enjoys it! He “takes pleasure in His people,” now and forever.
Do you believe this? Do you feel not only loved, but liked, by God? If not, consider again these verses and ask God to comfort you in the fact that He wants to be with you, at all times and no matter what. He will “rejoice over you with gladness” and “exult over you with loud singing.” We are His beloved work of art. His “poiema.”
Amen!