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The Perfect Life

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Are you living your best life?  In American culture, people say they’re “living their best life” when they’re doing great, doing the things they enjoy, and there’s nothing else they’d rather do.  Sometimes we may do what we’re supposed to do and enjoy it, but I doubt anyone is doing this constantly without exception.  I also doubt it’s as completely fulfilling as we expect it to be or tell others it is.  Also, the “best life” we see others living on social media isn’t a full reflection of how their lives are going.

On the other hand, consider the only person who ever lived a life fully acceptable to God: Jesus.  His “best life” began in a dirty manger and ended on a dirty, bloody cross.  In between, He lived a life fully devoted to doing the work of the Father.  If Jesus’ life was perfect according to God, what does our “best life” really look like?

It doesn’t mean a life lived without happiness and joy, after all joy is a fruit of the Spirit, something that comes from following God.  I don’t get the impression that Jesus was never having a good time.  His first miracle was turning water into wine, and He was accused of being a “glutton and a drunkard.”[1]  He certainly wasn’t a glutton or drunkard, but someone who always acts like a stick-in-the-mud would not have faced these accusations.  Jesus enjoyed being among friends, even if they were “tax collectors and sinners,” and certainly lived a joyful life.  He was often enjoying Himself, although without excess or sin.

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The same as with Jesus, our “best life” means living as God intended us to live, and what He wants most from us is to love Him and to love our neighbor.  We may want to live for ourselves and only care about what we can get out of this world.  As the saying goes, “he who dies with the most toys wins,” right?  But living this way has a negative impact on others and we can’t keep what we gain anyway.  I’ve also heard that “you never see a U-Haul being pulled behind a hearse.”  In contrast, living for others is what Christ commands, following the Spirit’s guidance can bring us joy, and the positive impact we have on others has an eternal value greater than we can measure.

However, we know that many in Jesus’ day did not approve of the way He lived (even though it was perfect), and many of those people were the religious and political leaders.  The same will be true for His followers, as He said in Matthew 10:24, “a disciple is not above his teacher, nor a servant above his master.”  In other words, if He suffered for doing good, why would we be an exception?  Truly living our “best life” according to God means that we will face resistance.  Christian love isn’t always a virtue this world admires or wants to see.

As we know, this opposition led to Jesus being turned over to the authorities and sentenced to death upon a cross.  Only His life didn’t end on the cross.  He rose from the dead and ascended into heaven, where He prepares a place for us.  A place where we can live our “best life” perfectly and without opposition or persecution.  A place where we can be who God really intended us to be.  There should be nothing we’d rather do.

“For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to us.” – Romans 8:18

[1] Matthew 11:19

Why We Pray

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Why do Christians pray, and why should they pray?  We probably pay a lot more attention to what we are praying than why, and maybe sometimes we don’t pray because we don’t think its necessary.  This may happen when we don’t know the why.

There are many reasons (many “whys”) we could think of for why Christians should pray, and here are some:

Do we pray to tell God what we want or need?  No, because the Bible tells us[1] that God already knows what we need.  He already knows everything, including knowing what we need better than we do, as our Creator.

Do we pray to convince God we are worthy and deserve His audience?  No, because on our own we are unrighteous sinners and only deserve separation from God.  Jesus has already accomplished everything we need to be able to approach God.

Do we pray so that God will love us more?  No, God’s love is based on His own character, not our actions.  He can’t love us more, and won’t love us any less, than He does.  That He gave His Son to die on the cross for us proves this.

So, why?

Before teaching His disciples how to pray using what we now call the Lord’s Prayer, Jesus said to them: “Pray then like this.”[2]  We often think of the Lord’s Prayer as instruction on how to pray, but maybe miss that Jesus told His disciples to pray.  It’s something He wants us to do, and regularly.

We pray because Jesus tells us to.  “Pray then like this” said Jesus because God desires a relationship with us and a big part of that relationship should be time spent in prayer.

Thomas Becon, an English cleric and Protestant reformer in the 1500’s, wrote this about prayer[3]: “For God neither for our worthiness nor for our unworthiness heareth us; but for his commandment and promise sake. He hath commanded us to pray; therefore ought we to pray. For if we should never pray till we were worthy of ourselves before God to pray, so should we never pray: but we therefore pray, because God hath commanded us so to do. Our worthiness is the humble confession of our unworthiness; and our obedience unto the commandment of God to pray maketh us most worthy.”

Therefore, pray, and often.

“Pray without ceasing” – 1 Thessalonians 5:17

[1] Matthew 6:8, 6:32, Luke 12:30
[2] Matthew 6:9a
[3] McKim, Donald K.  Everyday Prayer with the Reformers (2020).  P. 65.

Is Christianity Like Improv Comedy?

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The TV show Whose Line is it Anyway? is probably the most-widely-known form of improvisational comedy, and one of my favorites.  Four performers act out short scenes based on a set of rules for each scene or game, spontaneously adding their own creativity and (if successful) humor.  For example, in the “Props” game, pictured, the performers were given two “P” shaped props to make jokes about.  The show wouldn’t be any good if they just showed us the props and explained the rules over and over again.  The show is pointless without spontaneous creativity.  But why am I writing about improv on a Christian blog?  But why am I writing about improv on a Christian blog?  Because today I’m writing about a Bible study that leaves us to ask: Whose Plan is it Anyway?

Whose Pun is it Anyway?

In Judges 6-7, God delivers Israel from the Midianites using Gideon, who thought God couldn’t use him because “my clan is the weakest in Manasseh, and I am the least in my father’s house.”  At times, Gideon doubts God is speaking to him and that He really means what He says, but God patiently answers Gideon’s questions and performs miracles, encouraging Gideon to move forward.

Eventually, Gideon and his 300-man army attacked the enemy army, which was “like locusts in abundance, and their camels were without number, as the sand that is on the seashore in abundance.”[1]  After Gideon split his army into three groups, this was the plan of attack:

“So Gideon and the hundred men who were with him came to the outskirts of the camp at the beginning of the middle watch, when they had just set the watch. And they blew the trumpets and smashed the jars that were in their hands.  Then the three companies blew the trumpets and broke the jars. They held in their left hands the torches, and in their right hands the trumpets to blow. And they cried out, ‘A sword for the LORD and for Gideon!’”[2]

Whose Plan is it Anyway?
This is where improv comes in: the text does not tell us who came up with this wacky attack plan.  Was it God’s idea or was it Gideons?  Why leave it ambiguous?  I think it is because, either way, it is not a decisive factor in the victory.  The attack plan works because of God’s involvement, no matter whose idea it was.  If it was Gideon’s idea, he was only using the abilities his Maker had given Him for the purpose of glorifying Him.  If it was God’s, Gideon was also only using the abilities God gave him and dedicating them to God’s glory.

What’s amazing is that Gideon went from testing God with fleece to carrying out this attack.  God had Gideon convinced it would work, and that it would work because God would make it work.  Victory didn’t come from any advantage Gideon had or created, and all along God was determined to get the glory.  The plan would have failed if God had not put fear into the camp, and had not let Gideon know about that fear by way of a dream a Midianite soldier had.

Like improv comedy, God’s rules only go so far before the performers need to take over.  God gives us patterns, which are like the rules of an improv skit, not step-by-step instructions in every aspect of our lives.  Adam and Eve were shown a pattern in the Garden of Eden, Moses was given a pattern for the tabernacle on the mountain, and Jesus lived a pattern of how to love the Father and our neighbor.  Beyond the patterns and rules there is so much to do and explore.  His will is for His people to make the world like Eden, to worship Him as He should be worshiped, and to love the world the way Jesus loved.

The Little Things
To hear and obey His voice, we must spend time with Him in prayer and study, diligently learning the patterns He has laid out for us, but He does not expect us to stop there. At some point, we must take the guidance we have and move forward with the wisdom and creativity He has endowed us each with.  When we do we will be like the servant who successfully invested his Master’s resources, and in return “His master said to him, ‘Well done, good and faithful servant. You have been faithful over a little; I will set you over much. Enter into the joy of your master.’”[3]

However, if we either do not diligently seek Him, or if we say He has not given us enough instructions, we may find ourselves cast out from the Master’s presence, hearing: “you ought to have invested my money with the bankers, and at my coming I should have received what was my own with interest.”[4]

In Gideon’s story, we see God’s compassionate understanding toward His people who struggle to hear and obey His voice but keep trying.  We, like Gideon, are not always faithful over the little things such as prayer, study, and regular worship.  But Only He fully knows the depth of our doubts and struggles, and He provides what we need to trust Him and move forward in faith, knowing our doubt is never fully overcome until eternity.

In the story, we also see that we must often act on trust, even when we think we have incomplete information.  Like Gideon, we should be imperfectly persistent, wrestling with God who knows our faith is imperfect.  He can bridge the gap to us in His unlimited grace.

So, where does God’s guiding voice stop, and our God-given creativity begin?  Like a good improv comedy scene, the parts can come together perfectly, glorify God, and encourage His people to come along in faith, as the men of Naphtali, Asher, Manasseh, and Ephraim joined the battle against the Midianites once it was clear God had delivered the victory[5].  When we seek Him and find Him, and in faith move forward to spread His character and creativity in the world, glorifying Him.

God is glorified when His people attempt things that sometimes don’t make sense, then succeed because He provided the way.  It’s always His plan anyway.

Soli Deo Gloria

[1] Judges 7:12
[2] Judges 7:19-20
[3] Matthew 25:21
[4] Matthew 25:27
[5] Judges 7:23-25

When Rights Collide

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For a time, Moses was the sole judge over Israel, deciding right and wrong in countless cases brought by the people.  This was a massive burden and brought him to exhaustion, until his father-in-law Jethro urged Moses to delegate some of the responsibility.  Jethro tells Moses to find some able, trustworthy men, and in Exodus 18:22, he says “And let them judge the people at all times. Every great matter they shall bring to you, but any small matter they shall decide themselves. So it will be easier for you, and they will bear the burden with you.”  Moses was to act essentially as a court of appeal for hard cases.  What kind of “great matter” might Moses get?

Deuteronomy 17:8 might be one example: “if any case arises requiring decision between one kind of homicide and another, one kind of legal right and another, or one kind of assault and another, any case within your towns that is too difficult for you, then you shall arise and go up to the place that the LORD your God will choose.”

What the Bible recognizes here is that the right solution isn’t always obvious.  The Bible recognizes that things can get messy.  Life isn’t always as black-and-white, right-versus-wrong as we might think.  There are complex situations where rights conflict with rights, rather than a simple right versus wrong.  Each side of the case – the plaintiff and the defendant – might be at fault.

For example, suppose one person assaulted another without provocation, but in return the other retaliated in an unjustified way.  Should both complaints cancel each other out, and no judgement declared either way?  Or should the judge enforce the penalty for both crimes independent of each other?  If one penalty is greater than the other, should a judge subtract one penalty from the other and enforce the difference on the person with the greater crime?  Would that be justice for either person?

Sometimes there aren’t easy answers, even based on God’s perfect, revealed law.  All of us are sinful and justice requires we be punished for the times we have violated some kind of legal right, committed come kind of assault, or harmed someone in another way.  What solution can untangle all of these competing claims for justice?

The only viable answer is forgiveness, but forgiveness doesn’t come free, or cheap.  For our violations against God, the cost of forgiveness was Jesus’ suffering and dying on the cross.  For our sins against each other, God demands that we forgive others as we have been forgiven by Him.  We are to bear the cross of not only our sins, but the sins of others.  Forgiveness is hard because it sometimes means not demanding that our rights be respected.  Sometimes it means our sense of justice might be violated.  Yet forgiveness is what our Lord demands.

As Jesus said in Matthew 6:14-15, “For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you, but if you do not forgive others their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.”

Moses may have been able to be the court of appeal for Israel, to bear the burden of every “great matter” of the time, but only Jesus could bear the burden of every matter for all time.  He asks us to follow His example, even when we think we have the right to do otherwise.

Persevering on the Cross

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The Passion stories at the end of each Gospel can be difficult to read.  When you love Jesus, it’s hard to see Him suffer such injustice in multiple trials before the Jews and the Romans, to suffer abuse such as flogging and being spit upon, but mostly to read about His crucifixion.  It’s also frustrating to read about those who abused Him and wonder, how did they not know better?  After all the compassion Jesus showed to the needy and the many miracles He performed, how could people not at least respect Him for that?  How could so many misunderstand Him?  A great example of misunderstanding is found in Matthew 27:40, where people passing by Jesus on the cross say:

“You who would destroy the temple and rebuild it in three days, save yourself! If you are the Son of God, come down from the cross.”

Jesus had already done many miracles to show that He was the Son of God, yet the people demanded one more.  Ironically, Jesus was in the process, while on the cross, of fulfilling His own prophecy about the temple, by which He meant His own body.  While coming down would have been the popular thing to do, impressing the crowds, it was not the will of the Father, so Jesus had to take this abuse knowing it was wrong.  Therefore, Jesus remained on the cross.

Having convicted Jesus by unrighteous means, through false accusations and the testimony of unreliable witnesses, the people wanted Him to prove His identity to them by unrighteous means, which coming down from the cross would have been.  It would be disobedience to the Father and therefore an act of unrighteousness.  It was only by our Savior’s perseverance on the cross that He could pay the penalty for our sins and save us.  Thank God for this!

Jesus took on the cross that only He could bear: the cross of God’s judgement for our sins.  But we have crosses to bear too.

Jesus said, “whoever does not take his cross and follow me is not worthy of me.  Whoever finds his life will lose it, and whoever loses his life for my sake will find it.” (Matthew 10:38-39)

What are our crosses?  They can be the service our Lord demands, and the trials that come along with that service.  They are the cost of loving God and our neighbor.  But sometimes we’d prefer another way.  How often when we’re going through difficult times do we essentially say, “if you are the Son of God, take away my cross!”  How often do we think that if Jesus was all-powerful, He would make our lives easy?  How often do we wish God (and our neighbors) would make less demands of us?  When we suffer injustice and abuse, do we want to put down our cross?  It may seem easier to just do what the world does in order to avoid suffering, and none of us are immune from these temptations.

However, like Jesus, we must bear our cross.  An easy life was not the plan for Jesus, and it’s not the plan for His followers either.  Pray for God to help us carry our cross today.

“Beloved, do not be surprised at the fiery trial when it comes upon you to test you, as though something strange were happening to you.  But rejoice insofar as you share Christ’s sufferings, that you may also rejoice and be glad when his glory is revealed.” – 1 Peter 4:12-13